You can be everywhere you want to be and how you want be Its only limited by your thoughts and by the speed of the number of your revolutions which happened all the time in your brain. Tolerate nothing what hampered your thoughts or emotions. Any cruelness will hamper them. No matter if they come from yourself or from others. If they com from others you practically stand next to them. But a higher speed of yourself, your mind would take care for the distand which is required.